Top 3 Tips to Cultivate Gratitude

by Alexandria Barker

Gratitude. It’s been called the most spiritual of all the emotions. It’s also one of the most powerful habits you can cultivate to help create a prosperous fulfilling life! When you feel gratitude, you can’t be angry or afraid. These emotions simply cannot inhabit your body at the same time. Feeling gratitude and appreciation puts you in a high-flying vibration that draws other wonderful things to you to be grateful for!
Cultivating an attitude of gratitude is as simple and basic as counting your blessings. There are many ways to incorporate this beautiful, powerful feeling into your life – here are some of my favorites:

1)  Gratitude Lists

Writing gratitude lists is simply counting your blessings and writing them down! It’s great to have a special journal for this, then whenever you need a lift, you need only review your book to be reminded of all the good things in your life! I recommend you write 5 items before bed. This sets you up for success, because your sub-conscious will keep processing these thoughts as you sleep, and you’ll wake up in a more positive state of mind.
Then, in the morning, write 5 more things you’re grateful for. Spend a moment thinking about each one, dwell in those beautiful feelings. This sets a powerfully positive tone for your day, and because you know you’ll need 5 more positive things to write that night, you’ll subconsciously be on the look-out for more things to be grateful for all day.

2) Gratitude Walks

As you begin your day, say “thank” with one foot and “you” with the other. Thank you is a beautiful powerful mantra! And by actively choosing this as your ‘go to” thought, you’re taking control of your thought processes, leaving less room for negative habitual thoughts.

Taking a walk in nature is the perfect time and place for a gratitude walk, which is also like a moving meditation. Simply focus on gratitude, either repeating the thank-you mantra, or by focusing on things you’re grateful for, like green grass, sunshine, birds singing, and being able to walk. Not only will you be burning calories and building muscle, you’ll be developing your gratitude muscle, paving the way for even better things to come your way!

3) Speaking Gratitude

It’s all to easy to do these practices, then slip back into familiar internal and external dialogue about things you don’t like — about the government, neighbors, your body, your boss. With a little practice you’ll find it easy to turn that around. Just say the opposite, find something good in all situations. It’s always there, though you may have to dig a bit. The more you make the effort, the easier it gets to be positive even if those around you are not.

Put these principles into practice, and you’ll see your life get better and better. Try and see!

Today’s guest poster is Alexandria Barker.  For more practical stress solutions, please visit her Wishful Thanking page.

Alexandria is an author, speaker, Life coach, and creator of the Wishful Thanking Manifestation System. As a Reiki Master/Teacher, Crystal Therapist, Akashic Records reader and Yoga teacher, she specializes in teaching the Law of Attraction and energy work.

Alexandria is happily married, has 4 children and 5 grand-children, and can honestly say she loves her life! Her goal is for you to be able to say the same!

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Amy Putkonen - September 14, 2012

Hi Alexandria & Julia!

How timely. I was JUST writing about gratitude on today’s post on my blog! How fun to see this then! There are two Friday linky challenges for gratitude that you may not know about … Livlane.com’s Bliss List and another one I just learned about at http://www.yourheartmakesadifference.com (Friday Joy Jam). I posted links to both of them over on my blog so check them out! What a great way to end the week!
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    Julia - September 14, 2012

    Thank you for you comment and for those links Amy. I’ll make sure Alexandria is aware of them. I need to go promote this post now. I put it last night and haven’t posted it yet. Have a lovely weekend.

    Alexandria Barker - September 17, 2012

    Hi Amy, thanks for the kind words, I’m so happy you enjoyed the article! I also visited the site you mentioned, so thanks for that tip! In Light, Alexandria
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The Great Gordino - September 14, 2012

The thank you walk is an interesting one! The other tips about writing down what we have to be grateful for, and actually saying thank you to others are great ones too!

I found watching the Paralympics made me feel really grateful for the abundance I have health wise.

Cheers, Gordon
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    Julia - September 14, 2012

    I like the thank you walk too Gordon. They are all good tips as you said. Thank you for your comment.

    Alexandria Barker - September 17, 2012

    Thanks Gordon! I agree, watching Paralympics totally makes you appreciate things we take for granted, like just going for a walk – how great that you see the abundance all around you. It’s so easy to miss that! Abundance is so much more than just money – but the more we appreciate the abundance of our health, relationships, and the beauty that surrounds us, the more we’ll see evidence of that abundance in our wallets!
    In Light
    Alexandria
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Tracey - September 14, 2012

Simple but effective and a good reminder!

    Julia - September 15, 2012

    Thank you for your comment Tracey. It is a good reminder.

    Alexandria Barker - September 17, 2012

    Thanks Tracey – I find simple solutions are often the most effective! It’s so easy to lose sight of all the blessings in our lives and take them for granted – but when we remind yourself of how fortunate we really are it’s such a vibe-lifter and opens the doors to even more blessings!
    In Light
    Alexandria
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Minette Riordan - September 14, 2012

Excellent post, I particularly like tip 3 on remembering to see the good in everything and how that is connected to our sense of being grateful. I know walks in nature always help me reconnect and remember what I am grateful for!
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    Julia - September 15, 2012

    I like the thank you walk too Minette. Sometimes we get so busy that a little reminder to be grateful is a good thing.

    Alexandria Barker - September 17, 2012

    Thanks Minette! Personally, gratitude walks always do it for me! Another technique I like is to end the week with a gratitude list of all the things that occurred that week that I was grateful for, as well as a list of things I’m grateful for that coming week that haven’t occurred yet – very effective. Amazing how many of them manifest in my life! 🙂
    In Light
    Alexandria
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Amethyst Mahoney - September 15, 2012

Nice post, Alexandria. I can’t imagine writing 5 things in the morning and in the evening. I usually do 3 at night as I have other spiritual practices in the morning and throughout the day. I do like the idea of the walk, too. 🙂
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    Julia - September 15, 2012

    Thank you for your sharing what you do Amethyst. I personally could do a better job of “practicing” gratitude, although I have do have an attitude of gratitude. I’m just not great about rituals or those kinds of practices.

    Alexandria Barker - September 17, 2012

    Thanks Amethyst – what a beautiful name, my favorite crystal! I don’t think it really matters when you do these practices – just that you do them! I like to start my day that way, and I think it helps to have a system when you’re just getting started. Also a great way to end the day!
    In Light
    Alexandria
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