10 Reasons to Have a Mentor

Young people in particular benefit from the experience and knowledge of a mentor.  The purpose for having a mentor is learning.  You can learn more, faster from someone who has been where you are and has experience that you do not yet have.

Here are 10 reasons to have mentor:

1.    Perspective and experience.  A mentor can give you the benefit of his or her perspective and experience.  He or she can help you assimilate to a new position and give you an insider’s view on how to get things done.

2.   Think outside the box.  A mentor can help you look at situations in new ways.  He or she can ask hard questions and help you solve problems. They can help you gain a level of self-awareness that you can’t get on your own and develop emotional intelligence with regard to business.  A mentor can help you challenge your limiting beliefs in ways you can’t do on your own.

3.    Define and reach long-term goals.  A mentor can help you define your career path and ensure that you don’t lose focus and continue down that road even when you become distracted by day-to-day pressures.  You always have to look at where you are going and how you are trying to develop yourself.  Mentors can help you set smart, realistic, future-oriented goals.

4.    Accountability.  When you know you are meeting with your mentor, you ensure that all the tasks you discussed in your last meeting are completed. A mentor brings accountability which develops responsibility.  This can cause you to strive for achievements you previously thought were impossible.

5.   Trusted person to discuss ideas and issues with.  A mentor can be a great sounding board for all issues, whether you are having difficulty with a business decision, an ethical dilemma, or need advice on how to tackle a project.

6.   Champion and ally.  A mentor who knows you well can be a strong champion of your positive attributes and an ally during any bumpy spots when building your business.

7.   Expand your contacts and network.  A mentor can help expand your network of contacts and business acquaintances.

8.   Open doors.  A mentor can open doors for you and introduce you to people and organizations that you might not be able to access on your own.

9.    Inspire.  A mentor whose work you admire can be a strong inspiration .

10.  Work better.  With the help of a good mentor, you can work more efficiently with a clearer view of the future you are trying to achieve.  This helps you feel more confident which leads to better work performance and more success in your chosen business.

Do you remember in the lesson on Building Your Dream Team we discussed how to approach people to be on your dream team and how to ask for help?  When you find someone that you would like to be your mentor, be sure to communicate your vision with clarity and with the passion that you have for your mission and be specific with what you want from a mentor.

You can find mentors in many places.  Could there be someone in your family who is a business person that you trust and feel safe confiding in?  Is there a teacher in your school who teaches business or entrepreneurship?  Perhaps you could give a presentation at the local Chamber of Commerce or some other group like Kiwanis or Lions Club.

Use your imagination, tap into your courage and just go for it.  The worst that can happen is the person you ask may say no.  After asking why they can’t help you, find someone else to ask.

Good luck.

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Dot Hurley - October 9, 2012

I think we could all benefit from a mentor, whatever our age.
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    Julia - October 9, 2012

    I agree Dot. Whether it’s a mentor or a coach that we pay a fee to, having someone to brainstorm with, get advice from and be accountable to is a great way to stay on track and move forward.

    Thank you for coming by.

Roy A. Ackerman, Ph.D., E.A. - October 9, 2012

These are great reasons for anyone to have a mentor.
Note: #4- Accountability… This is more true for mentors that also serve as one’s teacher or professor or one’s supervisor (one or more levels up) at work. Otherwise, the mentor will only be truly able to deal with accountability for those items with which s/he is working with you.

The converse is also true…Serving as mentor for another helps the mentor maintain balance, look at things from a different perspective, etc…

So, for what are you waiting?
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    Julia - October 9, 2012

    Great points Roy. I have always had mentors, I still do. I wouldn’t be as far along today in my business if I didn’t have several great mentors and coaches. I actually practice what I preach. Conversely, I have been and am still mentoring others. I love being a mentor, it’s amazingly fulfilling and I get to share from my knowledge base and experience.

    Thank you for adding to the discussion Roy. I appreciate your support.

Ashley Howland - October 9, 2012

Love this post – we train our students to mentor new and younger students. It’s a big part of our success, it is so important and amazing to see these students helping each other. Great to read this from someone else, I am loving your blog!
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    Julia - October 9, 2012

    Thank you for your kind words Ashley. Having the youth mentor each other is a great experience. I had great luck in the foster care group home I worked in having the older boys mentor the younger boys. Some of them formed lasting relationships and now as thirty-somethings they are still friends. I couldn’t have asked for a better outcome.

Tracey - October 9, 2012

This is SO important Julia! Looking at being a mentor myself to young people (although most people are younger than me these days so no shortage of mentees!)
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    Julia - October 9, 2012

    Thank you for your comment Tracey. Your comment made me laugh. There are plenty of people like me that are older than you too that need mentors. Having an advisor is a great thing.

Amy Putkonen - October 9, 2012

Excellent! I would also add “Shortcuts”! Mentors have a great way of carving a path so that we don’t have to! I love this list, Julia. I have been very fortunate to have some really incredible mentors in my life. This is so true.
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    Julia - October 9, 2012

    Thank you Amy. Your suggestion about shortcuts is a great addition to the reasons to have a mentor. I have also had some fantastic mentors and still do actually. I love having someone to call for suggestions and to bounce ideas off of and get resources from.

Kama - October 9, 2012

I like to think of a mentor as the person who holds up my mirror, and helps me see the so very obvious things that I can’t see. We can so easily see what others can do in business to improve, but for some reason it can be difficult to do this for ourselves. Great post.
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    Julia - October 9, 2012

    The mirror is a great analogy Kama. A mentor is also one who reflects back to us our attitudes and energies so that we can see where were are coming from as well as what we can do in business to improve.

shawn - October 9, 2012

I didn’t always believe in having a mentor. But since having one I realize how important they are to me and my growth. Having someone there to help us not to stumble or to warn us is so important.
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    Julia - October 9, 2012

    Thank you stopping by and leaving your comment, Shawn. It’s difficult for some people to have a mentor. It wasn’t something I learned at home growing up, that’s for sure. My parents accepted help from no one. I learned about mentors in the girl scouts and in college and have had mentors for most of my life.

Debbie - October 9, 2012

We adults need them to. I will have to go find one.
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    Julia - October 9, 2012

    Hi Debbie, thank you for reading. Yes, I encourage you to reach out and find a mentor. I believe you’ll find it will broaden your horizons. I must go read your series on Brain Fog!

The Great Gordino - October 9, 2012

That’s a great list Julia! Worth noting for people of all ages indeed, as already mentioned by Dot in earlier comment.
Cheers,
Gordon
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    Julia - October 9, 2012

    Good to see you again Gordon, thank you for coming by. I quite agree, mentors are great no matter what age you are and for most people the title of your blog applies – they should have done it ages ago 🙂

Amethyst Mahoney - October 9, 2012

We played a game called “Traffic Jam” this weekend at our workshop. One person could see everything that was going on, but the rest of us couldn’t. For me it really demonstrated why you need outside help.

I would have liked to see you segue into the fact that you are also available as a mentor, and to point me in the direction of where to sign up for something for free so I could find out more about your services. 🙂

    Julia - October 10, 2012

    Great idea Amethyst. Thank you for that reminder. I often forget when doing these posts because in my mind, I’m writing the second book. I’ll try to remember that from now on.

Harriet Stack - October 9, 2012

Really good list. Things have really changed for me since I have had a mentor and a number of people I can go to for coaching and advice.
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    Julia - October 10, 2012

    Thank for your contribution to the discussion Harriet. I’ve grown so much since I got a mentor. It’s an indispensable tool.

Emily - October 10, 2012

Mentors are so important all the way through life and come in so many unexpected shapes and sizes. I’ve had business mentors, marketing mentors, life mentors, and friend mentors who probably had no idea that they were mentors as well!

Another great reason (for teens in particular) to have a mentor, is that it helps to have someone they confide in that has a good moral compass and is genuinely wanting to help. Sadly, it can be tricky to keep your teenager listening!
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    Julia - October 10, 2012

    Thank you for your comments Emily. I agree that it can be tricky to keep your teenagers listening. Often they think they can figure it out on their own. Hence the saying “youth is wasted on the young.” Try as we might, sometimes they just don’t listen.

      Emily - October 10, 2012

      You are so right Julia!
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        Julia - October 10, 2012

        Thank you Emily. What a thrill to hear someone say I’m right :-). Mentors are so important.

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